Barnes Family, My sincere condolences to the family. I am sorry to hear of your loss. It was never the Creator’s purpose for mankind to suffer (Romans 5:12). I hope you will be comforted by the "God of all comfort" who promises to comfort us (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4). If you would like more information as to why we die please visit jw.org under Publications (Tracts) Can the dead really live again?